Written by Tim Bias, a contemporary pastor and writer.
As a follower of Jesus, one of the most effective tools you have is your word(s). I know that sounds strange, but you are only as good as your word. People are looking for others who they can trust. They want someone who speaks with hope and compassion, as well as someone of integrity and authenticity. Every day, in almost every situation, you can model the character and action needed, not only by what you say but how you say it…Regardless of whom you are speaking or writing, your intention in speaking or posting, whether in public, private, or social media, the words you use have the power to hurt or heal…Words create images and assumptions that shape the way people view one another, the community, the church, and even God. You can use words to encourage and build up as well as discourage and tear down. Words feed prejudices, cultivate relationships, and set the course for decision-making…God’s word of love and grace was made real in Jesus. So, Jesus is God’s encouraging word to us. As a Jesus follower, it makes sense to me that our words would reflect that same love and grace. That our words would be words of kindness, compassion, and encouragement.
Do not use harmful words, but only helpful words, the kind that builds up and provides what is needed, so that what you say will do good to those who hear you. [Ephesians 4:29]