Written by Ken Boa, a contemporary author and founder of Reflections Ministry.
In Matthew 7:12, Jesus gives us a powerful command that has become known as the Golden Rule…Many religions and cultures talk about treating others with kindness. But what Jesus says here is more than just another good rule for life. It’s a clear picture of what it means to live in the likeness of Christ, and it calls us to something deeper than we might expect. Many people are surprised to learn that Jesus’ version of the Golden Rule is actually unique. Other religions may offer similar-sounding advice, but they usually do so in the negative: “Don’t do to others what you wouldn’t want them to do to you.” That’s important, of course. But Jesus takes it a step further. He says, in effect, “Do to others what you would want them to do to you.” He’s not simply telling us to avoid doing harm—He’s calling us to actively do good. The Golden Rule invites us to step into the lives of others and love them with intention. Jesus even says this one command “is the Law and the Prophets.” In other words, it sums up the entire message of the Old Testament. Love, kindness, and self-giving toward others are not just side lessons in Scripture—they are at the heart of what God desires for His people. All of God’s commandments about how we should live in community with one another come together in this one sentence… Living out the Golden Rule in our daily lives is difficult. It means choosing patience when we are annoyed. It means showing kindness when we’ve been wronged. It means giving when it costs us something. And yet, this is what Jesus did for us. He loved us while we were still sinners. He gave Himself for us while we were still enemies of God. His love was proactive, sacrificial, and full of grace. That’s the kind of love we are called to show.
In everything, therefore, treat people the same way you want them to treat you, for this is the Law and the Prophets. [Matthew 7:12]