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MEDITATION:

Written by Debra Torres, a contemporary author.

I found the huge wooden star one day while walking through the pastures of a farm we rented.  It rested against a corrugated steel wall inside one of the farm’s outbuildings. What was the star doing out in the middle of a cow pasture? I wondered. When I asked my landlord about the star, his tone turned a bit nostalgic as he said, “Oh, Dad used to string lights on that and put it up on the roof every year.” See, my landlord had grown up in the house where we were living, and I loved to hear sentimental stories like that one.  I quickly asked if I could use the star that Christmas and he consented. I strung the star with fresh white lights and, not daring enough to venture to the roof, propped it up right next to our front door. At night it had a beautiful effect. And since our home was up on a hill a short distance from a busy road, I hoped that it would remind passersby of the Star of Bethlehem. I was surprised a year or two later when my son came home from school with a paper he had written on family traditions. My star made the top of his list! I had no idea I had created a tradition for my own family. But sometimes, when the holidays roll around, I get to thinking about how much work I’ll save by eliminating this or that tradition. I mean, what if we didn’t even do a tree this year?  No needles, no tangled lights, none of those crazy hooks stuck in the carpet. Our family has gone into a “simple mode” the past few years with a small artificial tree– but maybe we didn’t need to get that out either. But I was convicted this past summer by something I read by Richard Ivy, writer of the father’s devotional, “Memories of Dad.” Ivy highlights how important family traditions are to our kids saying: “Traditions are part of life. They set standards of behavior. They impart family values. They help knit together family members into a tapestry that gives each one a sense of belonging and acceptance.” “And traditions are not limited to any particular season. On the Fourth of July, families have reunion picnics. At Easter, families buy new clothes. Vacations are often always at the same place. And birthdays are where grandma always gives you a dollar for each year of your age. Each of these adds another stitch to the family fabric.” Traditions may take work, but they do have purpose. And one of the nice things about them is that while you can keep old ones alive, you can always add new ones to the mix like my star.

SCRIPTURE:

Matthew 2:10 

“When they saw the star, they were overjoyed.”

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MEDITATION:

Written by Catherine Montgrain from the Village Church.

When I was a young child growing up in the north of England, one of our Christmas traditions or experiences was to have “mummers” ring on our doorbell in the days before Christmas Eve. They would proceed into our house, five or six of them, with masks on or faces blackened with soot, and proceed to dust all our shelves, fireplaces, and furniture, while making murmuring mumming sounds (like mmmmmm) while doing this. They were traditionally cleaning while sweeping out the old year. On their way out, we would give them a monetary gift for their church or charity.  They would usually be smiling which stopped them from frightening me. My parents told me that they represented coal miners with their blackened faces, as we lived in a coal mining area, and I would see the men with these same faces from the school bus coming home in the evening after high school.

On researching mummers, a little, I find that they date back to the Middle Ages and actors would actually perform a Mummers Play where a hero was slain then brought back to life by a clever doctor, all the while “mumming” with no words, and sometimes wearing elaborate costumes. Our local version was definitely a very simple version of this, providing a friendly dusting before decorations went up. What a fun tradition it was!

SCRIPTURE:

Hebrews 13:16 

“And do not forget to do good and to share with others, for with such sacrifices God is pleased.”

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Written by Linda Bailey, a contemporary author, radio broadcaster, and ministry leader from Australia.

In Iceland, books are exchanged as Christmas Eve presents, then you spend the rest of the night in bed reading them and eating chocolate. The tradition is part of a season called Jolabokaflod, or ‘The Christmas Book Flood’, because Iceland, which publishes more books per capita than any other country, sells most of the books between September and November due to people preparing for the upcoming holiday. This is a Christmas tradition that I could commit to. Putting your feet up in bed, reading a good book and eating chocolate. You wouldn’t have to tell me twice!

I would love to know how this tradition started. Most of our Australian traditions come about because it’s Summer and we have hot weather and long days. People gather together outside in parks and play backyard cricket and have a BBQ. I’m assuming that tradition wouldn’t work in Iceland in the depth of their winter!  A lot of our family’s Christmas traditions have come from our faith. My parents were committed to making Christmas a very special time – not just for us but for many people. And their focus was always on Jesus rather than the presents and the decorations. Whatever is important to us comes out in the traditions we create. Have a think about the traditions you are part of this Christmas season. If someone was looking on, what would they say is of utmost importance to you?

SCRIPTURE:

Romans 15:13 

“May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.”

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MEDITATION:

Written by Mary Whittier/Johansen from the Village Church.

 A great joy for grandparents is to see their little ones in a Christmas Pageant. We enjoyed two granddaughters portraying baby Jesus.  One grew up to be Mary a few years later. A favorite memory is Grandson Neil as one of the three kings at a small Presbyterian church in Princeton, New Jersey. The congregation included several ethnic groups. Traditionally the wise man, magi, are Caucasian, Asian, and African, denoting that Jesus came to earth for all people.   After the shepherds and sheep gathered around the holy family, three mini-kings in elaborate robes and crowns presented their gifts to the Christ Child and retired.  Worship continued, but when the offering was taken, to my delight, the mini kings passed the plates.  Probably no frankincense or myrrh was given, but hearts were given.  Neil is now an elder at Jewel Lake Presbyterian Church in Anchorage, Alaska.

SCRIPTURE:

Matthew 2:1-2

“After Jesus was born in Bethlehem in Judea, during the time of King Herod, Magi from the east came to Jerusalem and asked, “Where is the one who has been born king of the Jews? We saw his star when it rose and have come to worship him.”

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MEDITATION:

Written by Robert Wacker, a contemporary pastor and chaplain for Concordia Ministries.

I can still hear the crackle of the needle on the vinyl as we set up our Christmas trees as children. I can hear the pops in the songs from the needle running over the tracks and the imperfections in the record. I can hear our laughter as we placed the ornaments on the tree and the bickering of siblings who shared the love for one specific ornament and who should get to put it on the tree that year. I can hear the crunch of the needles (real or manufactured). I can see the sparkle of the lights on the tree. I can clearly hear four songs playing that were a must-play for our family as we decorated. First was always Alvin and the chipmunks’ “Christmas Song.” …Then we would sing “Silent Night” and “O Christmas Tree” in German and then English. Then “Away in a Manger” sung by someone like Jonny Cash or Alabama. Then my dad would always play the entire album by the Carpenters “Christmas Portraits.” This was some of our traditions in my family as we set up the house for Christmas. To this day I like to pull out the record player and my dad’s records when we set up our tree to hear these songs and share them with my son. At church, we would have the Christmas story read, but the tradition was that it was read in the King James Version. To this day, I still hear the story of our Savior’s birth in my head read in that particular translation.

As we celebrate with those we love, we develop our traditions together. Newly married couples develop their own traditions their first year together, and it’s often a merger of their families traditions. As we go through our traditions each year, they remind us of those we love, those who love us, and the love of our God who was born in a Manger that night all those years ago to the Virgin Mary…It is in this Baby that all the promises and prophecies of God would be fulfilled to save the world from sin…This is what we see prepared for us when we look at the Christmas Manger scene every year, as we look to the birth of our savior, that God loves you so much that He came to save you, and He did so in Jesus. He died for you. Forgiving your sins, giving you salvation, and He gives you eternal life. This is what we see in the manger.

SCRIPTURE:

Matthew 2:11

“The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the one and only Son, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth.”

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MEDITATION:

Written by Marsha Wenskay from the Village Church.

When my children were young we were blessed to have doting Grandparents, Aunts, Uncles, and Godparents. These beloved people showered our children with gifts for special occasions. Christmas was no exception. Like many blessings of abundance, there was a downside. We did not need to add excessive material gifts, yet, as parents, we wanted to have the joy of gifting our children. I was always open to trying to simplify the Christmas “Crazies” with young children.

We decided to embrace the holiday as a true celebration of the birth of Jesus. The Bible story of the Three Wise men led us to a perfect solution. Each child would receive three gifts from us. That included the obligatory new Pajamas for everyone to wear to bed on Christmas Eve. That took care of the gift situation. We also made sure to have each child pick from the Angel Tree and participate in gifting children from the church Christmas project. So, we covered both the giving and receiving from the Jesus perspective. Then on Christmas morning, their Father got out his saxophone (Just like he did for the children’s birthday) and we sang a rousing “Happy Birthday dear Jesus!” After the morning gift rush! All three participated in blowing out the candles on the simple birthday cake that we served with Christmas morning breakfast. We started this tradition when they were toddlers and now my youngest is 30, the middle is 37, and my oldest is 41. The tradition still stands. If I have time, I bake the cake. Some years, it came from Ralphs! Whatever worked to keep it Simple. Merry Christmas and HBD Jesus!

SCRIPTURE:

Matthew 2:11

“On coming to the house, they saw the child with his mother Mary, and they bowed down and worshiped him. Then they opened their treasures and presented him with gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh.”

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MEDITATION:

Written by Mark D. Roberts, a contemporary author and speaker.  This is an excerpt from his work “Yearning for Face Time.”

How, we might wonder, does God teach us to love? It’s important to remember that, in the Bible, love isn’t mainly a matter of emotions, though love can certainly have feelings attached to it…In Scripture, love is mainly a matter of action. It is actively doing what is best for others, often at a considerable cost to yourself. So, when we think of God helping us to grow in love, we should focus not so much on developing warm feelings for others as on choosing to act in a loving way toward them. God will help us to do this if we ask and if we respond to the guidance of the spirit. If you want to grow in love today, ask the Lord to show you whom to love and what to do. Then do it! Often, feelings of love follow from actions of love. Loving others can sometimes require costly and sacrificial action. We might think, for example, of Mother Teresa (now Saint Teresa of Calcutta) and her years of loving people who were dying of things like leprosy, tuberculosis, and HIV/AIDS. But, for most of us, most of the time, love is expressed in relatively modest, small ways. For example, as I was working on this devotion, I asked the Lord how I might grow in love today. I had a strong impression that I needed to reach out to a friend who is going through a difficult time. It was too early in the day to call, so I sent him a quick “check-in” text. I’m pretty sure he’ll be glad to get the text, and I expect it will be a catalyst for further communication. This experience makes me wonder how my life would be different if each morning as part of my devotional routine I were to ask the Lord, “Whom should I love today? How should I do it?” In response to my wondering, I’m going to add that prayer to my daily practice. Down the road a piece I’ll let you know how it’s going. Perhaps you’d like to join me in this experiment.

PRAYER:

Written by Mark D. Roberts, the author of today’s meditation.

Gracious God, thank you for the reminder that love isn’t something static, something we achieve and move on. Rather, love is something in which we should be growing each day. Help me, Lord, to increase and abound in love. Guide me, by your Spirit, to know when, whom, and how to love. Bring to mind people I can love today and help me to act on your guidance. As I pray for myself, I also pray for my church. Help us, Lord, to grow in love for each other and our neighbors. Amen.

MEDITATION:

Written by John Wesley (1703-1791), an English cleric, theologian, and evangelist who was a leader in the revival movement known as Methodism.  This is an excerpt from his book “Christian Perfection.”

Beware of the daughter of pride: enthusiasm. By enthusiasm I mean the tendency to hastily ascribe everything to God, supposing dreams and voices and visions to be special revelations that God has given to you. While they may be from God, they may also be from the devil. Therefore, ​“believe not every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they be of God.” Test all things by the written word of God and let all bow down before it. You are in danger of enthusiasm every time you depart even a little from the Scriptures. We must never depart from the plain meaning of Scripture, and we must always take it in the context in which it was written. But keep in mind that we must not despise reason, knowledge, or human learning, every one of which is a gift of God and was given to serve a purpose. One general inlet to enthusiasm is expecting the end without the means: expecting knowledge, for instance, without searching the Scriptures and consulting with the people of God or expecting spiritual strength without constant prayer and steady watchfulness, or expecting God to bless you without hearing the word of God at every opportunity. Another inlet to enthusiasm may be the very desire to ​“grow in grace.” For some people, this will continually lead them to seek ​“new” grace and thereby lead us to seek something other than new degrees of loving God and our neighbor. Some will think they have come upon a new grace when they have discovered what it means to be ​“one with Christ” or to ​“die with Christ.” When we take a fresh teaching from the Scriptures to heart, we must not conclude that it is a ​“new” gift. We have all of these things when we are justified; all that remains is that we experience them in higher degrees. We should always remember that love is the highest gift of God. All of our revelations and gifts are little things compared to love. There is nothing higher in religion. If you are looking for anything else, you are looking wide of the mark. Settle in your heart that from this moment on you will aim at nothing more than that love described in the thirteenth chapter of 1 Corinthians. You can go no higher than this.

PRAYER:

Written by David Jeremiah, a contemporary pastor, speaker, and author.

Lord, I have a lot of things going on today. Help me to take You with me wherever I go. And help me to bring Jesus and His truthfulness and openness and honesty into every situation, with kindness and love. Amen.

MEDITATION:

Written by Debbie McDaniel, a contemporary author.

All across our nation, Thanksgiving is a day that we set aside in order to do one thing. Be thankful. And usually what goes along with it, is lots of food, family and friends, laughter and fun, times of giving to others in need, maybe some football, or traditions that you’ve recognized through long years. And sometimes too, there is also loneliness. And struggle. Or deep loss. Feelings of hurt and painful circumstances that you’re still trying to hurdle over. Whatever you’re facing this Thanksgiving Day, in the midst of all of it, may we remember again that God gives us the opportunity each and every day, to give worship and thanks to Him. Every morning He gives us breath, His invitation to come joyfully into His Presence. He reminds us that He alone is God and we belong to Him. He assures us that His plans in our lives are for good, that his love covers us securely, and His faithfulness extends from generation to generation. No matter what, He’s given us so many reasons to choose thankfulness and joy this day. Let’s do what the Psalmist (Psalm 100) says: Shout for joy. Worship the Lord with gladness. Come before Him with joyful songs. Know that He is God. Enter His gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise. Give thanks to Him and praise His name. Recognize His goodness, love, and faithfulness, through all the generations of our family. Happy Thanksgiving.

PRAYER:

Written by Debbie McDaniel, the author of todays Meditation.

Dear God, Thank you for your goodness and for your blessings over our lives. Forgive us for when we don’t thank you enough, for who you are, for all that you do, for all that you’ve given. We’re so grateful to you for your amazing love and care, for your mercy and grace, for always working on our behalf, even behind the scenes when we’re unaware. Thank you that you are always with us and will never leave us, even through loss and the most difficult of times. Thank you for your incredible sacrifice so that we might have freedom and life. Help us to set our eyes and our hearts on you afresh. Renew our spirits, fill us with your peace and joy, this Thanksgiving Day and every day. We give you thanks and praise, for You alone are worthy! In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

MEDITATION:

Written by Os Hillman, a contemporary speaker, author, and consultant on faith at work.

When a measured assault enters our life, we often respond in two different ways. The pain caused by the assault drives us to a place of either embracing the pain or we embrace anything that will make us feel better. That becomes the entry door to a false lover. Men and women each seek to avoid pain in different ways. Larry Crabb has summarized these two unique strategies often used to avoid deep pain: All of us are trapped by addiction to a desire for something less than God. For many women, that something less is relational control. “I will not be hurt again, and I will not let people I love be hurt. I’ll see to it that what I fear never happens again.” They, therefore, live in terror of vulnerably presenting themselves to anyone and instead become determined managers of people. Their true femininity remains safely tucked away behind the walls of relational control. More common in men is an addiction to non-relational control. “I will experience deep and consuming satisfaction without ever having to relate meaningfully with anyone.” They keep things shallow and safe with family and friends and feel driven to experience a joy they never feel, a joy that only deep relating can provide. Their commitment is twofold: to never risk revealing inadequacy by drawing close to people and, without breaking that commitment, to feel powerful and alive. Power in business and illicit sex are favorite strategies for reaching that goal. Many times, we seek to deal with our pain through various forms of addictions designed to resolve the inner pain we feel. All addictions represent a counterfeit desire for genuine love and intimacy. We conclude these lesser desires are legitimate needs instead of band-aids of our fleshly soul. These addiction lovers become isolation chambers created for ourselves designed to mask our pain. Every human being has a desire to be loved. When we do not feel loved because of some event in our lives we seek to reconcile this emotional pain. So, if you are fighting any kind of addiction–over control of people, sex, drugs, alcohol, workaholism, shopping, overeating–you are seeking to fill a void only God can fill. Pain has a useful purpose in our lives. Facing it, rather than medicating it, allows us to move to a place of discovering a capacity for a different kind of joy. That is the purpose of pain. We must let inner pain do its work by experiencing it fully. It feels like a contradiction to embrace the pain, but it is the only remedy for moving past it so it can yield its purpose in our lives. Otherwise, we remain unaware of our deeper desire for God and be driven toward a false lover.

PRAYER:

Today’s prayer is from the “Carmina Gadelica,” six volumes of prayers, hymns, blessings, songs, proverbs and literary folkloric poems from the Gaelic speaking regions of Scotland.  Compilation of the works began by Alexander Carmichel between 1860 and 1909.

Father beloved of every naked one, from Whom all gifts and goodness come. Our hearts illumine with Thy mercy, and in Thy mercy shield us from all harm. Without Thy divinity there is nothing. In man that can earn esteem; Without Thyself, O King of kings, sinless man can never be. In succor Thou art of all the best against the soul of wildest speech; Food art thou sweeter than all; Sustain and guide us at every time. The knee that is stiff, O Healer, make pliant. The heart that is hard make warm beneath Thy wing; The soul that is wandering from Thy path. Grasp Thou his helm and he shall not die. Each thing that is foul cleanse Thou early. Each thing that is hard soften Thou with Thy grace. Each wound that is working us pain, O Best of healers, make Thou whole! Give Thou to Thy people to be diligent To put their trust in Thee as God, that Thou mayest help them in every hour With thy sevenfold gift, O Holy Spirit generous! Amen.