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Written by Victoria Riollano, a contemporary ministry leader and author.

Listening is more powerful than speaking. When we make a choice to not just hear the hearts of those around us we act out of love. It can be difficult to listen when you don’t agree with the stance of the person or when you feel like you haven’t been heard. However, when we make a choice to allow others to express themselves, we recognize their need above our own. We notice that even Jesus didn’t do all the talking. From asking the disciples who people thought He was to asking Peter if He loved Him, Jesus asked questions and awaited the response (Luke 9:18-20, John 21:15-17). This is astonishing because we know that Jesus knew their thoughts (Luke 5:22) but still took time to have conversations. What a beautiful picture of Jesus caring about what those around Him felt and being willing to listen!  In the same way, we have an opportunity to be active listeners. Those who are active listeners do the following: Wait their turn to speak, ask open-ended questions, and await the answer, repeat back what they have heard, and give undivided attention.

My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.  [ James 1:19]